Feeling of Grievance

Any interaction creates  

Likes and dislikes

Which are feelings

Dislikes generate irritation

Which turns into fear

or an insult

Insults stem from the ego

This sometimes turns into

a desire for revenge

The revenge can be between 

two or more human beings

It's due to personality comparisons

The revenge creates further grievances  

Beginning grievances need

to be addressed with calmness

by stabilizing things and thoughts

that are aggravating the situation 

Calmness can be achieved 

by managing our senses

and generates self-discipline

to a minimum or sometimes neutralized

That why parents always try

to instil the discipline

of calmness in children

even if they have to cry

Make sure your personal beliefs 

and status quo are not tied to ego

and don't influence your action

This will prevent tender hearts 

from being hurt